Haven't posted in awhile... Just had what I thought was a great weekend, but now I am just not so sure.. <P>I am still in a good mood, I am moving along quite well with my life. Making new friends, etc.. But today and actually a good deal of the weekend I thought about my STBX. He has still been calling every day, We had a long talk Saturday morning and he even asked for my advice on some things going on in his life. I am wondering if I should come right out and ask him if he would be willing to give this a chance? He is still living with OW, but just doesn't seem happy and even told me that he sees no future in it. In the last few months I have changed and grown a great deal as a person. He has even commented on that as well. <P>Part of me wants this all to be over with all that he has put me through, but then again, I feel like if he is still contacting me like he is, then it isn't really over?? What should I do.. Just let time take its course or actually ask him?