Hey there....I have been reading your posts and it is so bringing me back to over a year ago when my husband was going through the same thing as you. I am so sorry for your pain.<P>Hubby and I had just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary....but we had been having a really stressful year or two. We have 2 children- 2 and 8 at the time- and while hubby works full time outside the home- I am fulltime at home with the kids- and we also run a home-based internet business. So- we were feeling really maxxed out. Hubby and I met in AA and have been clean and sober over a decade. Anyway- I had a girlfriend- who was also married- I have known her for about 20 years.....and I have always known that her marriage wasn't the happiest. She always told me that I was her best friend- I could never really tell her the same- because I didn't really feel that- especially because a lot of the time I felt sorry for her. Nevertheless- we had a lot of fun together. Anyways......<P>this is a long story- hope you have the time to read it. <P>We are in my dining room one day in 1998- and she comes in for a visit. My hubby is on the computer in the other room- and she proceeds to tell me that she has "feelings for me" and would I have an affair with her? I have had some bisexual encounters in the past- but she didn't even know this....so she really did have a lot of balls in a way to say this to me. <P>At the time- hubby and I were doing o.k. I was extremely flattered by her ....<P><BR>hubby just came home- I will continue later..<P>it all worked out in the end!!!!