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#683667 03/02/01 12:28 PM
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Kind of an off-the-wall question for the ladies.... I am looking to change the scent I wear [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Something that I used to wear was Drakkar but I have recently heard good things about Acqua Di Gio. Since the object of a scent is for the women, I was wondering what you all like?<P>------------------<BR>God always waits for the right time to do the right thing in the right way.

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I love men's cologne!!!<BR>Give Chemistry by Clinque at try (ooh, I like that one alot!)<BR>or if you don't like that one, give Hugo "Boss" a try.<P>Thanks for the "easy" topic!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>

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Hi!<P>Well, whatever you choose, just make sure it's not overpowering. Enhance is the word, not cover up!<P>I like manly scents, something that I'd never wear, no unisex stuff. I don't have a favorite, I just know what I hate: Brut, for example (is that still around? haha).<P>------------------<BR>I just want to sit in the garden in peace~~<P>*Statue*

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ST2,<P>When looking for perfume I always ask the gals at the counter at a finer store (not K-Mart), "what are the 18-21 year olds wearing that is new and popular"? Who wants a Old Spice kinda guy anyway?<P>My first choice is a man with a basic clean smell.....soap and water, there's nothing like it, ya know? Sure colognes are wonderful but like some ladies perfumes, boy can they overpower!!! You can just see the cloud of scent hanging over them. How about trying a lotion or soap etc. with the "new" scent you do like, they aren't so drastic. <P>Subtle is good!<P>Ragamuffin

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Oh good, something fun!!!<P>My x almost never wore any type of fragrance after about our 5th anniversary. But when he did, I was on him like a duck on a junebug. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>The man I dated this summer wore Chanel for Men which I really liked. And he did wear it subtly. Something new I've smelled is Angel for Men. Has no flowers. Chocolate, patchoulli, raspberries, vanilla. It is not as "vivid" as Angel for women. They are distinct fragrances.<P>A well-dressed, well-groomed, good smelling guy. That's such a delicious thought. Where can I find one?

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Mike!<P>You are killing me! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I have to confess that I absolutely LOVE the scent of a man, and thus, I am very much aware of the cologne a man does or does not wear.<P>Some men are lucky and have a naturally good smelling personal scent. I know this is going to sound strange, but that's the scent a person has when they are clean but have no cologne or other artificial scent applied. If you have a pretty decent personal scent, the best thing you can do is find a soap that compliments your personal scent and stick with it. For example, I like Lever2000, because it cleans without adding too much of a soap-cologne smell, yet it does enhance a person's natural scent.<P>If you must or think you should wear cologne, I would suggest sampling some before you buy. Here's why: each person has a different body chemistry, and although Acqua Di Gio smells great on one guy with compatible body chemistry, it may clash with your body chemistry. The point of adding cologne, or any scent, is to compliment your own manly smell, so it should also be compatible with the scent you already create. <P>I agree with Ragamuffin--go to a finer department store and ask what some of the more popular scents are. Smell a couple at the counter until you have two or three that YOU like. Then sample those scents, one at a time. Smell them when they first are placed on your body, smell them a couple of hours later, and smell them at the end of the day because that's when your natural scent will have blended (or not) the most with the cologne. If you need help, ask someone you trust to smell for you (like your mom--haha), but I bet when you smell the cologne at the end of the day, you'll know the one that enhances your own natural fragrance. <P>Have fun with this! <P><BR>CJ<P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

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Oh... yummy topic [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>My personal prefrence is a fresh, clean "outdoorsy" scent. I agree with everyone, whatever you chose, make sure it's not overpowering. Personally, I like to be able to snuggle up to a guys neck and still be able to breath. <P>Now, if I could just find a nice, good smelling guy to snuggle up to! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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I love Polo by Ralph Lauren. <P>

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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Statue:<BR><B>I just know what I hate: Brut, for example (is that still around? haha).<BR></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>It was the last time I looked. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] It always showed up at Christmas from one careless or clueless giver or another. My father and I used to surprise each other with hurled Brut-sodden <I>Kleenexes</I>. Like <I>eau de skunk</I>, it took a couple of showers to get rid of the smell! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>

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Boy! Did I just date myself with the Brut comment. You can only assume that the guy I remember wearing it had a polyester shirt unbottoned to his navel and three gold chains. Need I also tell you that there was a disco ball and Gloria Gaynor? I didn't think so.

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Thanks everyone for your advice. I just think that I haven't found the scent that goes along with me yet - So often when I try one, it wears off, very quickly. To compensate I usually have to apply a fair amount before going out, but then everyone needs to stay away from me for about an hour [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I'm not one for the fruity natural scents - they don't seem to fit "me". Keep in mind that I am about 6'3" - 220 lbs. So for me to walk around smelling like a rasberry might not work [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I tend to stray more towards the musk types of scent. That is one of the reasons I might try the Acqua dio - It is more masculine of a scent, but not as strong as Drakkar....<P>I went to the counter of a higher end store about 5 months ago to sample some scents. And yes I did talk to the woman there - Unfortunately she was quite attractive and unfortunately I get quite nervous in those "initial meeting" types of situations [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]. I let her talk me into a scent that I ended up not liking at all. Can't remember its name, but the bottle is in the shape of a man's body.<P>Mike<P>------------------<BR>God always waits for the right time to do the right thing in the right way.

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If you find some fragrances you like, see if they have sample dispensers they might give you. Normally the "dry down" time on a fragrance is at least 20-25 minutes, so it will take you that long for the alcohol, etc. to evaporate and for you to be able to smell the true scent. So, get some samples and find someone willing to do a sniff test. Remember, though, that you can only differentiate a few fragrances at a time. No more than 3. On pulse points. Try one on each wrist. I know that's not where men usually wear fragrance but the body heat is good there. And try the neck. They'll be spread out far enough that they shouldn't influence the test-sniffer too much.

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How about Tuna Fish Sandwich? Steve Martin liked it . . . . . .<P>Men's cologne is certainly something that has to "fit".<P>What fits me is Tommy Hilfiger, at least that is what my wife used to tell me.

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ST2....here's a site that might help you some although I'm not sure if men's fragrances are described. One of my favorite perfumes is Diorella which is described as Chypre-fresh. When I'm looking of a new scent I start with the ones that have a basic smell...chypre-fresh.... that is similar to one I know I already like and smells great on me. Eau Sauvage by Christian Dior is a very sublte, clean smelling mens cologne that always sends me sniffing for more!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR> <A HREF="http://www.parfumsraffy.com/notes.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.parfumsraffy.com/notes.html</A> <BR>

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back from spring training for a weekend,<P>Isn't the best answer the impossible one? the one that the prospective person likes? how do you prevent your liking one scent and not repelling potential possibilities? or are the variations so small that just smelling nice is adequate?<P>Now in the locker room after a game, we just shower, powder and leave, not many smells on my team.<P>sportsguy

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Great topic!<P><BR>One of the first things I did when my Ex moved out was go and buy new smells. She was a big fan of "Pleasures" for men (Estee Lauder). Needless to say I didn't get that!<P>The two I wear most often now are totally different from each other. Hugo (Hugo Boss) is the night-on-the-town smell. Most days I wear "Pi" by Givenchy...kind of vanilla-ish.<P>Usually I go in with a good idea of what I want, and they always give out 2 or 3 samples of different brands. That's how I found out about Pi.

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My daughter is very much like me. It's scary to be raising a younger version of yourself. Anyway, she agrees with me on AngelMen. She says it smells kind of piney.<p>[This message has been edited by cinderella (edited March 05, 2001).]

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Ha HA<P><BR> Brut reminds me of my 15 yr old boyfriend back in 1966.<BR> Anyone remember paisley and polka dots? Clothes not scents<P>------------------<BR>Deb

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OK, after all the Brut comments, what do I actually use?<P>In order of preference:<P>Gray Flannel (X's favorite--it makes no nevermind to me)<BR>Swiss Army (interim XGF's choice for me--men take heed, she was a fragrance fanatic!)<BR>Polo<BR>Drakkar Noir<BR>There's also Old Spice and Oscar de la Renta por lui around. Can't recall using them.

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Mike,<BR>Pretty much all I use is after shave gels and the few women I've dated recently have really commented on my nice smells. I have also had comments from other ladies.<P>My x always hated the smell.

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