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Joined: Mar 2001
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Just wondering why people go back after several days and delete their posts????
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Joined: Jun 1999
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Some people's spouses or x-spouses come here too and they don't want them to know what they are thinking I think is the biggest reason. Also someone else was removing them to protect themselves in legal proceedings where spouse may have used vents as threats.
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What about when the OW deletes a post?
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Could posts be from OW be used against the WS by the BS?
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Joined: Jun 1999
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That is difficult to say. Since I believe a majority of states are no fault, a reason for a divorce isn't needed so the info that an affair is occuring is irrelevant.<P>Info posted about a legal item, stolen monies, skipping out of work for a rendevous could be used. <P>Also what the op is doing for the ws, what EN they are filling, could help BS in pointing out what is lacking in the marriage and can use the info to counter act it.<P>However if the BS uses info the OP posts, and tell WS, this would probably backfire in that the WS spouse would see this as a Lovebuster. In my opinion and from seeing it posted here, the WS spouse almost always defends the OP. After all the OP is just a friend, helped out in time of trouble, etc, etc.
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Hi Sister,<P>I've been posting here for several months, and there seems to be an unwritten agreement among the members that one does not alter another person's posts.<P>This site is monitered and anything inappropriate can be removed.
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