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<BR>Well, I have just about had it. My husband just called and after chit chat asked me if I had made another appt with Mediator, I said no, not yet. Well, I just needed to know for my schedule this week.<P>This is my plan. Give my husband a Plan A letter, I read it because I get side tracked. Tell him I love him , blah blah and all I have learned about needs, etc and stuff. Tell him I would like a chance to meet his needs, etc. and then tell him that I am stopping the divorce process because I don't want one and I can not continue doing something I don't believe in.<P>I also want to invite him to a weekend away in 2 weeks without kids, just for us. He doesn't have to answer for any of the questions now. <P>If he chooses to file for divorce, then if he does not voluntarily move out, then I will throw his stuff out and change the locks. Presently, he is "living" at home but he is never really here. Even at night. I can no longer let myself be a doormat and keep the truth hidden from the children about what there father wants and he can no longer come and go into this house whenever he wants. There are consequences for his actions. Time to grow up.<P>Any thoughts,<P>Hopelessmom

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Hopeless,<P>Did you do this? Have you stopped your divorce?<P>------------------<BR>I just want to sit in the garden in peace~~<P>*Statue*


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