I don't get any chance to try Plan A. My H has moved out (10 days)and won't give me address and phone number. I have not get his phone call or anything. <P>I can contect him through his e-mail. That doesn't mean he would read the e-mail I send to him. He seems hate to see our happy pictures before he left. and He doesn't like the note I wrote to tell him I love him. But I put our pictures and notes everywhere now, in case he need to come here to pick up something. Shuld I remove those things? <P>Am I in Plan B now? Is there anything else I can do? If he won't contect with me, should I call his work place before he go for a summer vacation?

Plan A is to show him you have changed & can be pleasant towards him & you are taking his feelings into consideration.<P>Since he has been gone for only 10 days (I know it seems like a million years) there is plenty of time for him to “wake up.” When he does call or come around, be as pleasant as you can. Don’t argue with him or tell him how what he is doing is crushing you. Smile, smile, smile! When he leaves, go ahead & cry & punch the pillow if you need to.<P>Don’t send him a million emails. Send him one if you have something IMPORTANT to discuss or bring to his attention (such as the house burned down or the car died.) Perhaps leave a few pictures of you around the house, but don’t cover every wall in the house with your wedding pictures (unless it was that way before.)<P>If he told you he was going on vacation, perhaps send him a very short email telling him to enjoy it. Don’t make it wishy-washy.<P>Again, the idea is to understand what you can do to better yourself for the marriage & learn how to understand & adapt to situations.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>