Anyone have any suggestions? My husband has been having a midlife crisis for almost 3 years now. At a time when all our kids are out of the house, he is all confused. He got involved with someone and first I really thought it was over but now over the last 6 months he has been saying he really wants his marriage and he will tell me he really doesn't want her. But 3 weeks ago when I thought he wasn't seeing her, he confessed he was so I told him he was out.Any one with a similar problem? I am doing all the thingsI have learned from my counselor, But I still have time when I miss him so much. Also we will be married 30 years in summer, and our 1st grandchilddddd is 2 months old