Well here we go again, homey will not stop calling me and now we're on our way out to dinner, why is this person that I want to have a relationship with sending me mixed messages? I don't get it, he says no we cannot be together but he calls me more than I call him, he took me to lunch today, now he wants to take me to dinner tonight, he wants to make love to me probably more than I want him, but he won't say it,<P>he talks about what we're going to do this summer, but he left a month ago, he wants to date and see other people because he wants to start a family but he calls and ask me about my child all the time,<P>what is up with this????<P>it is draining me, it's physically tiring me out because it's like a tennis match and i'm tired of switching me head both ways, I can't live like this too much longer, <P>I'm not lying when I say I know he's a good man, that is why I want the relationship, but if it's in his heart then we really do need to end it before something goes from draining my energy to him walking out for real when he finds somebody else to replace the time and attention he's getting from me. <P>I'm allowing it to happen, but not anymore, it's got to go!

Hi there!!<P>I understand. You are tired of his indecision. Make a stand, but, dont be weak like me when he gives you hope. Read "Love Must Be Tough" by Dr. Dobson. Get your heart right with God. Pray for guidance and strength, and move on. If it were to ever work, you NEED to know that he really wants you, 150%<P>My two cents<BR>DARA

I've got to move on because if I don't I'm gonna end up on medication and I'm not into that, I can do better, no matter how little this person makes me feel, <P>do you know at dinner last night he cussed me out and told me he didn't give a &^%$ about me or my child, told me not to ever touch him again, and to leave him the &^%$ alone, so we were on our way out to dinner because he wanted to go and then he turns the car around cusses me out and tells me to go to hell.....<P>it was like dr. jeakle mr. hyde......<P>I was actually scared, so I can't go on like this....