This is not your usual NSR post. It's a musing post (or is it amusing?)<P>I had to post to my xW, on some web pages, documents (which I scanned), that remind her of the back child support she owes (6½ months), and that I will not contribute to xW's attorneys fees ($12,000+ and no payment made other than the initial $1,000 retainer on April 1999). Yes... her attorney is ticked off... but for some reason thinks I should pay (huh???)<P>My attorney's services are now ending...<BR>...so I will have to complete the remainder of the interactions.<BR>...and that's why I'm posting these on private web pages.<P>For those who don't know, I am a Java network programmer...<BR>...so every time anyone goes to my web pages...<BR>...I record the "hit".<P>Well low and behold... after my xW picked up a page or two...<BR>...<B>the hits where coming from the OM</B>! <P>My xW must have told her OM about the posts...<BR>...and now he has started looking at these pages...<BR>And he (not being computer illiterate)... found other web pages...<BR>...like my Plan B letters to her<BR>...like the other legal papers (child support / legal fees)<P>This... from the man that told me he would never look at any thing I send on the Internet.<P>I had a bit of a chuckle about his browsing around the web pages...<BR>...and now wonder...<BR>...what kind of discussion he will have with my xW?<P>This Wednesday (April 4th) will be the 2-year anniversary of D-day...<BR>... is it time for them to view some of these realities together?<BR>... will it bind them?... or cause them to fight?<BR>Who knows???<P>BTW: is the xOM or xWP (xW's paramour)?<P> <P>Jim

Jim,<P> Still checking up on you,<P><BR> Bethn

Oh geez, if you weren't such a straight up honest kinda guy, I'd suggest you have some "fun" with the OM! <P>Just think of the types of stuff you could innocently post for his viewing displeasure!! <P>Oh well, it was a fun thought anyway...I'll never get my revenge on the OW, so it was fun to think of your OM getting his!

Hi Jim,<P>How are you doing? Sounds like you are managing a little humor in your life. That is good. <P>Can I add something? This item was done out of a personal need, but it did match your post: Silent Correspondence so here goes:<P>I took a bag of laundry (H's dirty work clothes - small bag - grocery size) to OW's home about a week ago. <P>Reason: To see if OW or her H was home. Wanted to warn her H that she had mentioned (via e-mail which I have copies of) that she would try to squeeze out money from her H for them to be able to live the lifestyle WS & OW were 'meant' to live (right on someone else's money). Also to actually see why OW was more valuable than my son. <P>Guess this was a personal need. Anyway, no one answered the door so I just left the bag of clothes. No note just the clothes. Silent Correspondence? I think so. OW now knows that I know where she lives. <P>H ranted about it last night. Evidently OW's H found the clothes and OW is having to explain why it was on her doorstep. <P>Hmm......<P>L.<BR>

nothing like a good dose of reality!!<P>Bill