Okay, the stbx just got an earful(or eyefull). He's the one who wants this divorce so damned badly and yet he is doing absolutely nothing in regards to "promises" made to get me to leave quietly. I did that and now he has the nerve to write me a nasty letter claiming that he never made any deals with me. An absolute lie and one I can prove with saved writing.<BR> I know it's against the MB principles but I ripped into him in response. I reminded him who's idea all this was and if he's in dire straights well that's just too damned bad; he should have thought a little more carefully about what he's done. I am the one who lost her home and all her belongings. I am the one without resources basically thrown out on my [censored] so he could persue his little whore.<BR> Now he thinks he can turn around and start blaming me for his problems. Nu-uh, ain't happening. I've extended myself to the point of breaking and I've had enough. If he's too much of a child to take care of himself that is no longer my problem. It ceased to be my problem when he insisted on a divorce. He wanted to play, now he's gotta pay and I'm going to start holding him to every unrealistic promise he made. Maybe next time he'll think twice about making assinie promises.<P>The fog is rolling back out now and reality hurts. His life is coming apart at the seams and I'll be damned if I take any blame for that. I tried, Plan A, Plan B and just letting this person know that I love him. That ends here, he abuses the privilege left right and center. He doesn't know the tools I have in my hand to destroy him utterly and if he keeps his nose clean and doesn't start pushing me he'll never have to find out. I pray he's smart enough to take that path.<P>Happy Easter folks. :P<p>[This message has been edited by Nduli2 (edited April 15, 2001).]