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My husband & I have been married 2 1/2 yrs., 2nd time around for both of us. When we have sex, we fantasize about another person,i.e., him having another woman OR me having another man. We've been to some clubs, but I can't get over feeling jealous when I see him kiss another woman. We've been with a couple of other couples, but end up fighting about it later on. I've finally told him I can't accept this, but he really wants it. We've been fighting a lot, and after me telling him yesterday that I can't do this, he told me he is leaving. I don't know if I should just let him go or fight some more about this. I feel like it's hopeless, since it's something he wants very much. Any advice?
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Monette,<p>If he won't change I'd say let him go. You guys had to be crazy to think something like that would work. It may work in magazines like Penthouse Forum (if that's still around) but not in real life. Marriage is totally contradictory to that sort of lifestyle. If I were you I'd choose reality, which means a man and a woman being faithful to one another. If he can't handle that then, well, he needs to take another path. At least you'll be in the way to find happiness later. He never will living that way.
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see my post. What is wrong with people? Your husband is a selfish child who needs to be taking out behind the woodshed and spanked whoops he might like that. Seriously marriage is about commitment like bruce was saying. Commitment means self-sacrifice in order for future gain. It means postponing some of your wants in ordrer to please someone else. It means that for better or worse you are there for the long haul. Life is full of up's and downs' it is what you do that matters at those down times. Your husband is not committed to you period. He probably loves you very much but he is not commited to you nor you to him. What is wrong with people?
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