Kitty, <br>I've read some of your posts and you are very inspirational. You have a great outlook on life and I'm going to try and implement some of your positive suggestions into my own life/relationship.<p>My husband has told me he's not sure he's in love with me anymore or attracted to me. I'm going to work on keeping positive and keeping active - first step is to join the gym that I've been talking about for so long. I'm also going to try and do some new activities, even if he's not interested, maybe he'll come around when he sees how much fun I'm having!<p>Thank you for your insights.