Sorry... I'll wait for the EN Board...<p>[This message has been edited by Jami (edited April 27, 2001).]

Hi,<P>Well the EN's board is giving us all a bit of trouble today...so no, it's not a sign unless it's a sign for ALL of us. <P>The financial problems that you mention are VERY REAL, I can see that. I've been there. My ex and I filed bankruptcy and it didn't help our already troubled marriage AT ALL. <P>Have you looked all over this site? Have you read about the POJA? If not, please look here --><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3500_policy.html" TARGET=_blank>POJA</A>. It might just help you to work *with* your H in making a financial plan... that would be a good place to begin anyway.<P>Then it can be used to discuss your friendships outside of the marriage too... he sounds threatened by them. Do you have any idea why he is so threatened?? That would be something to discuss as well.<P>I'm so sorry for your pain today... I hope coming over to this forum will make you feel a bit better this afternoon!<P>Have a nice weekend with your children -- and your H.<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<BR>(a bit worse for the wear, but hanging in there)<P><B>Life <I>is</I> difficult</B>.<BR><I>The Road Less Traveled</I><BR>~M. Scott Peck

Thanks, so much, Sheryl. You must have read my message right before I deleted it... You have some very good advice. Thank you! I am in a lot of pain right now & desperately needed some advice, so thanks for listening. I’ll post again on the EN board when it’s working…