I have a real problem with jealousy - - and don't know what to do about it. I have been married only four months. I have a real problem with trust. I think it comes from issues from childhood - - i.e. father died, mother was abusive and very un-loving. I have married a man that has a history of being untrustworthy in relationships. However, he assured me before marriage that he had changed. The problem is that I am constantly vigilant - - watching and wondering if he is going to do to me what he did to his former wife. (many affairs...) He does not show any signs of being involved in that behavior now, but I am constantly watchful and find myself being very jealous when he talks to any person of the opposite gender, or being what I think is too friendly with the opposite gender. When I confront him about his friendliness, he says it is not flirting - - just friendly. It does bother me though. Does anyone out there have any tips on how to overcome this jealousy? Any help appreciated.