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#689234 05/05/01 10:43 AM
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Wife filed for the "D". I helped her move out yesterday. The hardest thing that I have ever done was say goodbye to my three angels last night. I'm suppose to have the Tues and Fri of this coming week. Last night the house that used to filled with so much laughter was deafly quiet. Please pray for me, my children, and my wife.<P>Love, Bill<P>------------------<BR>-There are none so blind as those who refuse to see!-

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(((((Bill)))))<P>No words, just comforting thoughts.<P>

#689236 05/05/01 10:55 AM
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you & your family are in my prayers Bill<BR>sorry for your pain<P><BR>

#689237 05/06/01 12:34 AM
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((((((Bill))))))))))<P>So sorry to hear about this latest turn.<P>Take Care of yourself. You need to be as strong as you can be to face the days ahead.<P>

#689238 05/06/01 12:39 AM
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Prayers for you and your angels. I know how hard it is. Take one minute, hour, day at a time.<P>Hugs and prayers,<BR>Peace,<BR>hopelessmom

#689239 05/05/01 02:11 PM
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Thank you all so much. It feels better just knowing that you all are here and will pray for me.<P>Love, Bill

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Bill,<P>I'm returning to church tomorrow for the first time in a long time. I know this is the thing to make me feel much better. I will pray for you as well as CJ, Nduli, and all the others when I go. Tonite when I get a moment without the kids I plan on reading some posts and making a mental note of all these prayers. <P>I wish I could say more but I'm at such a loss for words right now.<P>Hugs, Dana<BR>

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Hey LostHusband,<P>Do you want a divorce or are you standing for marriage. My spouse just served me and I want to keep the marriage together. If you want to stand..........THEN STAND.....God will be with you because his will is for the two of you to be together.<P>Write me if you would like. Findandkeep@yahoo.com

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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Cigiwriter:<BR><B>Hey LostHusband,<P>Do you want a divorce or are you standing for marriage. My spouse just served me and I want to keep the marriage together. If you want to stand..........THEN STAND.....God will be with you because his will is for the two of you to be together.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>No I don't want a divorce especially on the terms that she is proposing. I guess I don't understand what you mean by "Then Stand". <P>I am being nice to her. My only problem is that I need to be with my three girls as much as possible.<P>I know that God is by my side in this matter I just pray that His will shall be done.<P>Bill<P><P>------------------<BR>-There are none so blind as those who refuse to see!-

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Sorry Bill,<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Last night the house that used to filled with so much laughter was deafly quiet.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I went through the same thing a couple of months ago...it'll drive you nuts if you let it...don't! Fortunately, my house is now almost empty...I gave my W almost everything. Let her have the memories in my absence...I will always carry the memories (furniture or not). My thoughts are with you.<P>DD

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Hey Bill,<P>I know the feeling. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.<P>Griz

#689245 05/08/01 06:32 AM
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Bill,<P>you'll still be in my prayers. I guess this is a bad time for us all. Hugs, Dana<BR>

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Thank to all. Hanging in there minute by minute. As each hour goes by it seems to get a bit easier. Tonight the girls are coming to stay with daddy so the spirits are high.<P>Take care all.<P>Love, Bill

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Bill, My ex and I did not have any children, but my house was still extremely silent nonetheless. It really makes you understand the old saying, "silence is deafening" doesn't it?<P>I used to keep a radio playing at the house so I never had to return to a quiet home. It wasn't much, but it really helped me.<P>You'll be in my thoughts.<P>

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sorry to hear that. Thank you for responding to my 1st post. I am in dire straits & would appreciate the male opinion. I am new to the board. Would your wife not consider counseling? I have only recently started to beg God for help & to be shown the right things to do. I hope God will embrace your heart & ease your pain.


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