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I'll try to be short. A few weeks ago my wife told me that she no longer had feelings for me. I was crushed. She as since gone to two sessions with a counselor. The counselor told her that it is not necessary to involve me in the sessions since we don't argue, about anything, never have in 12 years. My wife has been through a rough couple of years, deaths etc. She feels that the problems were are expierencing are her fault and not mine. It's seems strange to me that a counselor would not involve the husband when a marriage is in trouble. Does anyone have any thoughts. Also, thanks to the people who have responded in the past, your nice comments are very helpful.<br>
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Kevin,<p>It can depend on what the problem is. My husband goes to independant couseling and has been for over a year. We just started joint couseling four months ago. He had several issues to work through before he could even begin to face us. Give it a chance but don't let yourself be forgotten. Hang in there. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <p>Steph
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