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he has been calmer. I had said its only been a short while & I need time. <P>Is all this pain & separation just a test to see if I would leave him, file for divorce, have an affair etc? What is he thinking?? I would never do such a thing & he can tear the house from top to bottom & will find nothing.<P>I feel like Belushi in the animal house movie when he had the angel on one shoulder & the devil on the other. Only my battle is in my brain! (imagining/misjudging or truth). Someone stop the rollercoaster & let us off together!!<p>[This message has been edited by cantletgo (edited May 30, 2001).]
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I don't know if its a test, I can't really make an opinion on it, but I do know that in the times I have been cheated on, that person spent way more time trying to prove I was cheating, to take attention off THEM cheating. Now I have NEVER cheated on anyone in my life, but I was so busy defending myself I ignored the obvious. Just something I noticed in my own life.<P>All married people, and all couples for that matter have fights. It depends on how you communicate though. My exH and I had horrible yelling fights. The person I date now, speaks to me calmly and we've never had a fight, and one disagreement, which was still done with much communication.<P>I think its good to learn the right way to communicate either way at this point with your H. There have been some good posts by Bramble Rose about this.<P>Good luck, Dana
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