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#691033 05/21/01 07:44 AM
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Tomorrow morning is the day of my divorce. Court at about 9 in the morning. Everyone has told me it will probally go quick. I just need some good prayers, to get me through the week.<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

#691034 05/21/01 08:15 AM
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((((((((((((((BioMan)))))))))))))<P>Will be thinking of you.<P>My STBX filed last week so I will soon be in your shoes!<P>Take Care.

#691035 05/21/01 08:16 AM
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(((((BioMan)))))<P>No words... just hugs!<P><P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>And we know. We who have seen. ~Pellegrino

#691036 05/21/01 08:18 AM
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Tomorrow is scheduled to be D-day for me, as well. I'm not sure, however, because Friday was supposed to be, too, but my wife rerally bothced to paperwork (its no-fault, for crying out loud...really. She used ink, and pencil!) Anyway, tomorrow is the day..I'm praying, BioMan...stay strong. Take Care.

#691037 05/21/01 08:59 AM
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by HopelessinAZ:<BR><B>((((((((((((((BioMan)))))))))))))<P>Will be thinking of you.<P>My STBX filed last week so I will soon be in your shoes!<P>Take Care.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Ditto!<P>My "D" day is scheduled for July 10th. That sounds so close and I'm not ready to close this chapter of my life.<P>Bill<P><P>------------------<BR>-There are none so blind as those who refuse to see!-

#691038 05/21/01 10:45 AM
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I was in your shoes 3 months ago. Mine went quicker than I thought it would. It felt pretty rotten for a few hours afterwards, but I picked myself up and decided I wasn't going to let it get me too down. I had taken the day off from work, so I figured I'd try to enjoy it. I went to a restaurant my EX always refused to go to....scr*w her! I also went out and bought a new car, but I wouldn't recommend that for everyone! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Bottom line: it probably won't be as bad as you think it will be. It will give you a small amount of closure, and may even give you some relief in some small way. For me, hearing that judge declare our marriage over allowed me to let go of a lot of things I'd been carrying around for over a year.<P>Good luck.<P>cj

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((((((((((((((BioMan))))))))))))))<P>I'm so sorry. You are in my prayers.<P>------------------<BR><I>Pain is a given, misery is optional.</I>

#691040 05/21/01 11:34 PM
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Thank you all for your support..it means ALOT [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

#691041 05/22/01 06:34 AM
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Let us know how your day goes today. ((((Bioman))))<P><P>------------------<BR><I>Pain is a given, misery is optional.</I>

#691042 05/22/01 07:58 AM
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((((((Bioman))))))<BR>((((((HopelessinAZ))))))<BR>((((((waiting_for_her))))))<P>I've been where you are. It's not fun. But you can survive and you will be ok. <P>I pray that you have peace with the situation and that you have people around you who love you. (Even if it's your mom. They're pretty good to have around.)


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