i have been reading the post to The Student and agree with the ones that say let it rest. It is sometimes funny to think about that post and see everyones anger and views and wonder, did we act like that in our marriages and if we did is it not time for a change? Views are views and eveyone has one, and yes this is a dicussion board and people like to make there opinions, but what did everyone really come here for? to voice your opinions and to judge people. No eveybody came here for sometype of support, so just quit giving people opinons and be there to support them no matter what there views are on divorce/dating and what ever else. sometimes it is just nice to hear a voice who will not judge you. <p>[This message has been edited by Indie (edited May 21, 2001).]

I agree with you about what you're saying but the point is that we're all different. I enjoy a supportive shoulder to cry on as much as the next person but sometimes I equally enjoy a nice swift kick in my well... you know. It makes me think. In being here, I'm saying something has to change... I do not have the capacity to make it happen myself nor even see what needs to be challenged in myself. So, that's another reason why I come here... not only for the support but for the exhortation.<P>I appreciate what everyone says though I may not like it nor agree with it all the time. But, we're all different and all have different needs. How boring life would be if we all thought the same, commiserated in the same way, go through the same issues, etc. The point is we don't and we all see things differently. How can we embrace the diversity without squeezing the life or the beauty out of it? <P>Cheers!<P>------------------<BR>We cannot do everything at once... but we can do something at once<p>[This message has been edited by OvrCs (edited May 21, 2001).]