I am trying to move on and keep an open mind at the same time is this possible. Most days I tell my self to just let it all go and give up any hope. I tell myself she wasn't good for me anyway. I never want that kind of hurt and pain back. Then I get a phone call or a message always something trivia and my minds starts going again. I wish I could stop trying to read into ever small thing she say's or does and just move on. this sucks and I know there is no hope as long as she is with OM. I think sometimes to myself she is with him only to prove she did the right thing by leaving me for the love of her life. Yes he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. the funny thing is I talked to his wife and she was telling me things about him. She discribed all the things WS said she hated about me LOL. Well just writing here to get things out. Not really saying much LOL.