I was starting to be a little more sure about myself and my course of action, but the rollercoaster of emotions has started again. I am unsure about what to do next.<P>My wife and I haven't spoke in 3 weeks, now. It hurts a lot.<P>I said my piece 3 weeks ago that I loved her, I want to work this out, but that I am not waiting any longer and that I can't wear my ring for now. We agreed to stop...counseling, seeing each other, etc.<P>I am starting to give up hope. <P>And I am trying to figure out my next step in Plan B. I really can't afford to continue paying on a house that I am not living in, but I also don't want to push to soon in hopes that she might come around. I was thinking about a letter stating that I was letting her go and so on, but I can't seem to find the words that I want write.<P>I guess I am confused. Somedays it is clearer and other days you start thinking about the past and your love for your spouse and you want to wake up from this nightmare. Then you realize, you are awake. <P>Here's to making lemonade out of lemons, because this really sucks.<P>Any words of wisdom you wish to convey would be greatly appreciated. Also, see my post on Why Women Leave Men.<P>Thanks Chase