Just got home and in the mail was one of those insurance policy auto things that you get, well, this time I read it.<BR>On my auto, self, H and his OW #2 is listed as drivers on my vehicle. This is the second time he has done this. The first time was with OW #1 and he had her listed as our "cousin". I freaked out and told him I was going to report him to the fraud hotline people unless he did something about it. He did. he sold her the car.<P>I don't know how he got her listed as WHO but what the F###. What kind of crap is this. Does anyone know anything about insurance and if he can do this with out getting in trouble.<P> I am sure that she is probably listed on his vehicle also but he changed insurance agents for his car. <P>FOG, FOG FOG FOG. How about TOTALLY INSANE MAN WITH NO BRAIN. I am sort of laughing because I totally can not believe what he has done, AGAIN. I feel lost in space. I want to say to him, ARE YOU AN IDIOT AND I JUST DIDN'T SEE IT. What are you doing with your life and my life and the life of your kids. GROW UP.<P>I don't even know how to deal with him anymore. Part of me wants to laugh in his face. But how can I , ?I still love him? I don't even know. I probably love what could/should have been, a fantasy. Confusion is setting in again. <P>Actually, I am Ok. I just don't like some people's attitudes of oh well, your getting a divorce. What are you supposed to do. And sometimes they say, (of course not about me) What did he/she do to he/she that made them leave. WHAT? That comment is hurtful to me because people don't know and i guess, don't care.<P>For grins and giggles, my son, just 3, peed on the potty standing up for the FIRST time this weekend. Yes, life goes on and things progress. LOL.<P>smiling sort of today<P>Hopelessmom

Hi:<BR>Congratulations on your 3 yr old going potty--Although my kids are grown, I can still remember all those little milestones!<BR>As for the car insurance problem---is the car in your name only, or is your husband also listed on the registration? I would call the insurance company and inform them myself that OW should not be listed on the policy, and have her taken off. There is no reason you even need to talk with your husband. Just have the insurance people send him a copy of the paperwork stating she has been taken off.<P>If the car is strictly in your name on the registration, you may want to look at getting a policy in your name only. Your local insurance agent can give you the best advice.

Definitely contact your insurance agent and let them know that this is not a member of your household - and that you don't want her listed on it. See what the agent says. Also look into how much your own separate policy would be.<P>What comes over these WS's is really impossible to understand.<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>