Wife moved into an apartment about a month ago because of the increasing fights we were having. (Mutual blame)<BR>We went to dinner tonight with my widowed mother, brother and his wife.<BR>Seemed like everything from the start was coming from the "*itch from hell", looking to start some sort of fight with anyone. Trying to prove that she was the was the only one right. I had high hopes when she moved out that we would be back together soon, but it seems like we take one step forward, two steps back. I don't know if this is going to require a response, maybe I just needed to vent......somewhere!!!!!<BR>

Obviously she must be..... You seem to be such a wonderful person your self, and you wonderful brother and your sister-in-law must be wonderful people...... sounds like you married yourself a real *itch, from hell as you put it. Why dont you consider fileing for divorce....... i am sure everyone would be much happier that way, or maybe just consider telling your wife that she is a *itch to her face unstead of being a coward and doing it on here I am sure she has a few things she could say to you as well, if you had the balls to talk to her...... but what the hell do I know, I am only your wife...

Glenn, there is no point to this thats the reason I left because we were fighting, We just can not ge along and quite frankly he wont even fight with me any more he just does things like this to get me mad so I will go off and he is the good guy, He is a manipulative self serving psychotic so-and-so who needs to be medicated! this is not anger this is truth he is claiming he never called me a *itch he just said that I was acting like one big freaking differance.... No Glenn this marriage will not be saved because you can not save a marriage if you dont want to and I just dont really want to anymore.

Yeah okay thats nice, I don't think so..... We have been married for one VERY long year and we have been at eachothers throats for half of that time, As i told him, It's not that i dont love him its just that I can't standto be aroud him..... he is controling, nothing is ever up for disscussion even the little things, like the my car (now this is a story) we have been a little tight on cash, I blame myself, but my car was falling apart slowly, in December my transmission went out (it was a 1991) he demanded it went to the dealership, cost what $700 if I am not mistaken, just to fix the transmission (lets not mention the fact that I didn't have a freaking speedometer or powersteering) we could have had a re-built one put in for like $400 but no and I wanted to trade the car in I really really did we had been disscussing it for over a year, but no I couldn't(mind you he is driving a $20,000 1997 truck) but then not 2 months after spending $700 fixing the damn thing he wants to trade it in and get a new one, did I have a say no never. Fine wonderful dandy, and as for him going on about his damn brother, that man hates me as oes his wife, we have never gotten along they dont speak to me and I dont speak to them we dont even say casual hello's to eachother I said nothing to either one of them that night not one word you know why? because i am not allowed to his sister has sat there and told me what a bad mother and wife I am and i just didnt say a word I was never allowed to defend myself to his family ever and would he say anything? even when I begged him to because his sister had me at the point to either tears or killing her (not sure which) no NEVER NOT ONCE!!!!!!!!!!!!! yet he was allowed to refer to my mother and grandmother and sister as things that are not repeatable on this board? explain that so guess what Glenn there is no looking back with smiles, If I spend one more day married to that man I may just kill him!

Wehave each been married once before, I am 19 and he is 50, we each have a son his is 21 mine is 3, no it was not about the car but instead the fact that nothing I said about it mattered, it was his way all the time it was more of the way he made me feel really he always seems to have a way of making me feel worthless, do I really need someone like that in my life???????nothing I did was good enough for him. This is effecting my son I know that but we (I think we maybe just me)thought it would be better for him this way rather than waking him up in the middle of the night screaming at each other everynight. I am not going to put myself or my child through this, I really would prefer for my son not to hear my husband call the "the*itch from hell", wouldnt you?