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I see your situation very clearly and I think that may be true in most cases that a young woman is turned on by the bad boy types. In fact, one of my co-workers who's very bright and educated, seems to fall for the bad-boy redneck types. Her ex was this type and he fell for a sweet young thing who worked in a beauty salon with him mom. This gal's father is a doctor, and we've never fully understood her.<P>On the other hand, when I married I chose one of the wimpiest looking guys ever. He had horn-rimmed glasses and could have passed for Buddy Holly. He hardly dated any women for any length of time.(You younger people may not have remembered Buddy Holly and the Crickets who made Peggy Sue famous). He also was compared to Wally Cox who played Mr. Peepers. Anyone remember that show?<P>Anyway, my ex got to be better looking as he aged. He got glasses which were more becoming. And he looked great. Maybe he was trying to make up for all that he missed when he was young. So I chose a wimpy one and look what happened to me. <smile><BR>

~<p>[This message has been edited by not incapable of love (edited June 08, 2001).]