Since I am in divorce land where you have to shuffle kids back and forth, I am curious about vacations.<P>Presently, we are cooperating by EOW and he sees them t/th from 4-8 (although he comes and returns as HE desires)<P>He just gave me a list of when he will NOT be able to see the kids on those days for 4 times this summer. I don't know the reason why, but I highly doubt it is for work. Probably something HE is interested in doing for himself.<P>Should I exchange the days, or just say if it is not work related, then you must take the kids and if you have to get a baby sitter.<P>Also, I want him to take the kids for 2 full weeks (perhaps 1 week to 5 days at a time this summer. If it is full weeks do you go sat to sat or what. I would also like the kids for 2 full weeks to go to the summer place we have gone all our lives.(his parents there and my mom) <P>Also, my H has had to work a certain period (2 weeks) straight during the summer for the whole time at his present employer. Well, his list had 5 dates on it that he wants the kids. I already signed D up for day camp for those 2 weeks and my mom paid for it. I don't mind if he takes them then but I think he should reimburse my mom for those five days. (you pay for 2 weeks no matter what)<P>In put on visitation would be helpful.<P>hopelessmom

My ex and I are very much in civil agreement on vacations and such...She is taking Abbey to Montana for 10 days this summer...I said sure no problem...We'll simply just exchange the days out...This is one area that we have no problems anytime one of us has something the other just fills in...I guess I'm blessed...