I'd love to talk to you more about your attitudes towards child rearing in the midst of divorce. It sounds very similar to mine/ours (with ex-h).<P>We have had our ups and downs but through it all we have tried to keep the best interests of our children at heart.<P>Sometimes I think we're doing great, and others I think we're doing awfully. Sometimes it makes me want to tear my hair out.<P>I also think our children are quite well adjusted to all this that we have put them through. I have ALWAYS maintained that their Daddy loves them, and that he is a good man ( which made me choke sometimes!!) as I have always believed that that is in their best interests. I also happen to believe it. Their Daddy IS a good man, and he does love them.<P>I can only hope that their memories of their childhood are ones of happiness, even tho it may be in two different homes.<P>would love to talk more<P>Jo