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We have been separated 4 months. Just recently found out there was another woman. He has been seen with her alone, allowing my children to know that she is "daddy's girlfriend." My little one is so confused.We are not supposed to be seeing anyone else. We have joint custody now. We still have to settle finances,etc. But what can I do to prohibit his display of affection with this OW around my kids? Can he be reprimanded in any way?

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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by bully:<BR><B>We have been separated 4 months. Just recently found out there was another woman. He has been seen with her alone, allowing my children to know that she is "daddy's girlfriend." My little one is so confused.We are not supposed to be seeing anyone else. We have joint custody now. We still have to settle finances,etc. But what can I do to prohibit his display of affection with this OW around my kids? Can he be reprimanded in any way?</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Bully,<P> I am in the same boat that you are in. The OM got into the picture with the kids the day that my W left with the kids. My kids like the OM and that is unsetteling to say the least. Does your WS still talk to you? If, so I would ask them not to show affection infront of the kids. If, not then that is a whole diffrent matter. Then you may need to talk to your kids and try to explain to them whant is going on.<P>Indy

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As part of our temporary orders neither of us can take our D around a member of the opposite sex (i.e. boyfriend or girlfriend) unless the person is related by blood or marriage.<P>It's an Order......signed by both of us.<P>~Amy

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Can you please tell me exactly how you worded this so I can get it in my agreement, not to flaunt this OW around my children? Thanks so much. <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by out of the fog:<BR><B>As part of our temporary orders neither of us can take our D around a member of the opposite sex (i.e. boyfriend or girlfriend) unless the person is related by blood or marriage.<P>It's an Order......signed by both of us.<P>~Amy</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>


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