Hello everyone,<BR> This site is great..Thanks Dana..i was divorced for 10 yrs and i met my 2nd husband after much thought because i knew it would be hard to marry again after being by myself sooo long ,we tied the knot and got married.He was the perfect b/f and husband ,so i thought..2 months after are marriage he cheated and i didnt discover this til 3 months after the fact...I went thru all the bad behavior{used some not so lady like words} and we seperated..I find out that the ow is pregnant{oh joy just what i need},mind you she is married to so not sure whos the daddy of her twins shes carrying is, my husband or hers....i told him i wanted a d and he would have to do the paper work....well the other day he brought me the papers and i dont want a divorce but is there away to work this out after all the above.I do love him and i know he loves me.I realize to make this work i have to put all this behind me and i know that i will never forget it but i have to push it to the back.Can this be done???Just wanted some views from others that may have some insight on this...thanks<P>------------------<BR>Tracy<p>[This message has been edited by Traci493 (edited June 05, 2001).]