As a cancer survior for the past 15 months and 45 months left before being consider cured, we have had this weekend planned for months. It starts with a survior walk and then all the other stuff starts. She promise that she will be there with dght to walk with me for the survior walk. I stopped by her work before I went and she said she will be behind me, our 4 1/2 yr. dght was looking forward doing the walk again as she remember the year before. I said that it shouldn't take long and we could get to her work picnic afterwards, which she agreed. Well I made the walk alone and it was the loneliness walk ever with many tears and heart aches as I took each step. I stayed for 2 hours and still she never showed up. I met up with her half way home and she stopped me and asked if I wanted to go back to the events, which I declined, she never apologized, just said that she couldn't get away to make it for the walk. Later that night I mention how hurt I was on what she did and she never acknowledge anything I said, just looked at me and walked past me. How can anyone be so heartless? I'll never know. Again I'm not seeking the divorce she is.(org.post may 25&26). I just needed to vent, Thanks for whoever reads this post.

(((((((((((The Blues))))))))))))<P>I have seen spouses who are leaving do some heartless things on this board. I'm so sorry that yours has joined the group of real jerks.<P>Someday she will look back and regret how she treated you.<P>Here is to reaching your 45 month mark. <P>Take Care.<BR>