Today I join you all in the ranks on the D/D board. I filed yesterday and I'm quite fried by all of this. <P>I don't have much to say right now. You all have been inspirations to me as you go though your trials.<P>I wish you all the best!<P>K

Sorry to see you join us over here.<P>There is a great group of people over here. The support is fantastic. I am so thankful I have these dear people to help me get through this. I truely would be lost without them!

Well, welcome, though I'm sorry to see you have to move over here.<P>It's a tough road... but the support of everyone has been ABSOLUTELY wonderful!! <P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>And we know. We who have seen. ~Pellegrino

I apologize in the delay in responding to you ladies.<P>HopelessinAZ - You are so right. There are A LOT of wonderful people on this board. Thank you for the welcome.<P>Sheryl - Thank you dear lady for the welcome. It would have been a tough road but I am not going to be traveling it. <P>My husband and I are now on the road to recovery. This is the path we have chosen. I used to post under LostNco/DSN until an unwanted person appeared on to this site. Quite a few of you may not have been around when that occured.<P>My husband now posts on MB. He's name is [H].<P>Thank you ladies for your replies.<P>K/LostNco/DSN<BR>

Knewji,<P>OOOHHH, I remember when you were LOSTNCO. Those were some bad days for you.<P>I am thrilled for your recovery. I read the thread started by your H in GCII. He has done some real soul searching and as I was reading I thought....I can really respect that guy, if only my STBX could be as honest with himself. <P>Needless to say I cried wishing that my H could do what your H did.<P>Best of luck to the two of you!! it is always great to hear good news.

WOO HOO girl! <P>He's an excellent writer... and I HOPE AND PRAY he sticks with his resolve to be a better H.<P>God Bless and GREAT BIG HUGS,<P>Sheryl

Hi hi <BR>Thought I would stop by and visit the post that started ended it all so to speak. The post that finally made me sick to my stomach enough to reach out for help.<P>I saw this post, and I paniced. I contacted a friend of mine and we talked for 4 hours. At the end? Well I realized that all I wanted was my wife, and to be happy agian. Much of you have read my posts scattered all over GQII. Thank you everyone for supporting my wife. Thank you for your support of me as well <P>I'll definately stick with my resolve to be a better H. It's what I want. I'm out of the fog remember I'm not confused. I know what I want. I want to learn, grow, and communicate with my wife. I never lost sight of the things we wanted in the past. We still want those things.<P>We see so many more things we can achieve now as well. One step at time. A new beginning has definately opened for us. One where I get a chance to learn a bunch of really cool things. I always thought my wife was a fasinating person. Well now I get to learn what makes her happy. What makes her happy, makes me happy <P>So. On to the recovery board, and on to GQII to help where I can.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers, Hugs, and Strength from both of us. Things do and can get better. Keep hoping, learning, and growing. Take care of yourself.<P>[H] and Knewjie

Hope those look right. Speaking of stepping stones. Check out the placement of the smilely faces in my post. Little stepping stones of happiness. <P>------------------<BR>Prayers, Hugs, and Strength from both of us. Things do and can get better. Keep hoping, learning, and growing. Take care of yourself.<P>[H] and Knewjie

I haven’t followed you two much but I’m confused?!?<P>Knewjie,<BR><B>I filed yesterday.<P>My husband and I are now on the road to recovery.</B><P>[H],<BR><B>I'll definately stick with my resolve to be a better H.<P>I want to learn, grow, and communicate with my wife.<P>Well now I get to learn what makes her happy.<P>On to the recovery board,</B><P>Is a divorce in the works?<BR>Is it hold?<BR>Have you both decided to stay married?<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

Chris,<P>I'm sorry to confuse you!! I had filed for divorce but I have since canceled it and [H] and I are on the road to recovery. We are back together and are fixing our marriage. <P>I hope that clears up some confusion <P>K/LostNco/DSN<BR>[H]'s wife

Knewjie and [H], you are an inspiration to us all. I hope some day to be able to show [H]'s posts to my H, but in the meantime I am filing for D to protect our business and to begin preparing myself to let go and move on. My H's fog is thickened by alcohol and drugs, which changes everything.<P>So glad for you that your stay here on D/D was so brief!