My wife of 18 years is moving out again for the second time in less than a year and a half.The first time she moved out I was devastated as I still love her and dont want to see us end in divorce. The first time she came back I asked her to be sure she loved me for the sake of our 15 and 13 year old. She said she was and promised both kids she would never leave again and loved me. Now as i write this boxes and blank walls are around me. She is leaving me the house even though I offered it to her while I stayed at my parents. I did not want our children to go through this again. This time around though I am much stronger and I have decided no matter how hard I am going to let her go. I do still love her but she has rejected every attempt to save our marriage. I am also finding myself getting a little bitter about the way she thinks the children will handle this fine. I am determined to be the best example I can be to our children of my faith in God. I am worried they will see this as a reason to not trust again, anything or anyone as my 13 year old son has told me to not let her back again for fear of it happening again. That really floored me. I am determined that through all of this my children in all things are first. Im only 38 and there will be time later for me. This website is helping me tremendously, and I plan on visiting often.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Red62:<BR><B>My wife of 18 years is moving out again for the second time in less than a year and a half.The first time she moved out I was devastated as I still love her and dont want to see us end in divorce. The first time she came back I asked her to be sure she loved me for the sake of our 15 and 13 year old. She said she was and promised both kids she would never leave again and loved me. Now as i write this boxes and blank walls are around me. She is leaving me the house even though I offered it to her while I stayed at my parents. I did not want our children to go through this again. This time around though I am much stronger and I have decided no matter how hard I am going to let her go. I do still love her but she has rejected every attempt to save our marriage. I am also finding myself getting a little bitter about the way she thinks the children will handle this fine. I am determined to be the best example I can be to our children of my faith in God. I am worried they will see this as a reason to not trust again, anything or anyone as my 13 year old son has told me to not let her back again for fear of it happening again. That really floored me. I am determined that through all of this my children in all things are first. Im only 38 and there will be time later for me. This website is helping me tremendously, and I plan on visiting often.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Love is something you give and give away. As you stated you are letting go. But before yur final decision make sure that YOU have exhausted everything inot your marriage, so it want be said that you did'nt try. <P>Pray without ceasing. God has already fix it for you.<P>