Hi Friends, <P>My attorney sent a subpoena to ow so he could question her<BR>re: her TWO DWI CONVICTIONS...we have documentation about them off TExas Criminal REcords website. If she is bold enough to not show, she will be in Contempt of Court, which she already has one. If she appears (even though it is like giving her a personal invite to witness my H get the d. he is so sure he wants), it will be interesting to see if she perjures herself...Not easy for me...I figure,though, we have come this far, then why not subpoena her to see what she does...she is committing adultery with my H...subpoena sent to her there...<P>What is your vote? She will or will not show...<P>Thanks, elo

I vote I don't have a clue. She may show up. She may not show up. She may have a lawyer of her own move to quash the subpoena. The process server may not be able to find her. Anything can happen.<P>Elo, I really feel for you, right now your life is chock full of anxiety about the future, the unknown. I wish I could help, but only Time will give you your answers.<P>Prayers and stuff,<P>Bumper

Bumperii,<BR>You are right. Anything could happen. <P>She is part of a network of con-people. She has been in jail and in treatment centers for drugs and alcohol abuse.<BR>She has left the treatment center without permissiion, had her probation provoked and then, incarcerated again.<P>She has a history of bad checks, and the first dwi conviction I have record of is in 1990 and the next is in 1999. So was she in detox in all those in between years?<BR>It is highly doubtful.<P>When she moved here from Texas, she was supposed to avoid any contact with alcohol...and she was bartender when my husband fatefully met her...and in two weeks, they were in an accident in his truck...both drunk...he was issued a dwi and got off because by the time the blood was drawn, his blood alcohol count had dropped...her hospital records show hers at .094%...on rum and beer and on pain killers.<P>How she will respond to this subpoena remains to be seen?<BR> I had no choice but to retain an attorney, after my husband stopped two hearings in a year and then filed for a 3rd hearing when he was garnished...I had filed for child support in 8/00, he defied it until they threatened contempt and loss of his driver's license. Prior to that he was not being garnished,and he had all his money to take care of his other life...to hell with his children...<P>My attorney convinced me to let him subpoena her to bring out her dwi and criminal background.<P>The woman and her daughter live in the same apartment my H rents. He tells me taht the girl lives with her mother!!Yes, sure, and where does he live? IN the closet!!!!! so he is housing and taking care of her child...but, reluctantly agreed, finally to inform Support Services of his employer...so he could still drive his truck--and probably drive and drink. I know he has not been in detox. He had a 2nd dwi last July but got off of that one because the state trooper didn't show--which is what this other woman might also do. She has a history of contempt of court also.<P>Yes, you are right, I am very anxious and fear for the future--a future that I never in my life would have imagined would have taken this direction.<P>I hate my h's actions. I hate his alcohol abuse. I hate his selfish mental state...to be true to himself...he told me-----and after the accident, the other woman filed against out auto ins, got her $25,000 and Bonnie and Clyde were off. Then, 12 days after he abandoned us, he amended our 96 and 97 returns, and someone else signed my name(I have the proof). In 8/00, he received the amended refunds, and he forged my name to both of them. I have the copies of the checks. He used all the money on him and the woman.<P>This goes on and on. I just want justice. I want my children to be kept away from this woman since it appears that she is not going anywhere...she has held onto tighter than a leech and she has pressured him to divorce me and acutally paid some of the legal fees.<P>A nightmare...<P>Thanks for writing. I am not too sure about your situation but I hope it is better than mine...keep writing. elo.