I have been counseling with one of MB's counselors for a few weeks now. Done Plan A (as best I could so not going to say I was perfect) though it only seemed to push spouse further away. Then this week was pushed into Plan B earlier than had planned by a couple of situations that occurred. Basically I was not there to meet some emotional needs, they ended up being met by another, spouse still says they are just friends though I know better. In short plan B shoved into play now rather abruptly. A friend told me about a site that may help others here so I thought I would share it. <A HREF="http://www.spiritualdivorce.com" TARGET=_blank>http://www.spiritualdivorce.com</A> <P>