Well I was surprised this morning when I got an email congradulating me for an award I received. We have had no contact almost from the begining. She also said how much she missed the grandkids, since when she comes to town with OM she is not welcome by my daughter to see grandson. Well I have no hope, but thought it interesting to receive the email. I did have a chance to reply and try to deposit some love units, by telling her we all loved and cared for her and perhaps someday daughter will get over the pain, told her I hope her life is well and that I think of her often.