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time to move on
#693593 06/13/01 09:35 PM
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wife had an affair last year .it was discovered in april.i have tried to get her to work on us but she refuses.we have been to therapists and counselers but she has lied to them all.we have two kids 9&14 and i have hung in for them but i think its time to let it go.its so hard to tell the kids.she refuses to admit how much damage she did.hes also married and his wife still dosn't know.
Re: time to move on
#693594 06/14/01 05:08 AM
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I guess my question would be, did you try Plan A? I mean, did you really stick with it? I know I had a very hard time with it, for the same reasons that you're mentioning (a H, at the time, who had no intention of stopping the affairs no matter what I did).<P>How about Plan B? <P>Read about them here, if you haven't done so before: <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>What Are Plan A and Plan B</A><P>Do you know how to contact the W of the OM? I would do that, even anonymously, and let her know. She could be a wonderful ally for you.<P>I don't hear that you're ready to give up. You sound resigned, but not ready to let her go. True?<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>And we know. We who have seen. ~Pellegrino

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