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Hi RJH.<P>I read your post and can only offer hope and prayers. How is your faith? <P>"The lord is my shepard, I shall not want." Helped me when I was were you are helped me greatly. I'm getting through this with his help. <P>Tex.

Hi RJ,<P>I don't know if this is right but it seems to me that if you have to ask, of you don't know, then you shouldn't let go. There are lots of ups and downs in dealing with what we're dealing with. <P>I think you just need to be honest with yourself and what it is you really want. For most of us, what we want is our marriage back, strong and healthy and we're willing to move heaven and earth to try and get that. <P>Sad truth is, sometimes it just doesn't work out that way.<P>I love my WS too. But I've been trying for a solid seven years to work my way back to him. He's taken a lot for granted. More imporantly he's continued lying, keeping things from me, and putting himself first. His needs come before OURS (as a married couple) before even the Kids. <BR>And he as he sees it is not to be held accountable for anything that's been wrong in our relationship.<P>I've started letting go. The bad far outweighs the good in my situation. <P>Snow<P>

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