I saw miaka's lastest post, and the responses seemed not to be in my favor. If Im not welcome please let me know, I dont want to create an uncomfortable situation. But thanks for the initial support Mrs. O and thanks to everyone for their responses to my initial post. I will continue to pray that miaka and I will stay together, but with each passing minute its looking grim. Please continue to pray for us if your willing. Thanks

You are WELCOME HERE!!!!! You want to save your marriage, you came here for help... YOU ARE WELCOME.<P>Have you begun a Plan A effort?

Well, yuki miaka <I>did</I> say that your presence here isn't going to chase her away. In order for us to be most helpful, there are actually some advantages to having some level of contact with both estranged spouses, and on balance I hope you stay.<BR>

Damn you ALL, your all too supportive!!!! In case you dont know thats a joke. Thanks Nyneve, GnomeDePlume I really appreciate your care. I've been reading through the basic concepts and such of the home page but I havent seen this PLAN A that some have spoken about. Where might I find this?<P>

Here is a PROPER welcome for you, and you just need to click on the links to read about different things... see PlanA and PlanB, below and click on that link...<P>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<BR>Hello and Welcome to Marriage Builders!<P>First, I would like to share two links with you. Just click on the underlined links here, and read –><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi10_tour.html" TARGET=_blank>Tour of Marriage Builders</A> and <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000553.html" TARGET=_blank>General Welcome</A>. <P>Please read everything you can on this site, post and read often!! <P>I have been betrayed and betrayer, so I have the dubious honor of knowing what infidelity does from BOTH SIDES of the situation. <P>I believe in the concepts espoused here, if applied properly. One idea that has worked *wonders* for some couples is Plan A. Read about it here –><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>What Are Plan A and Plan B</A>.<P>Use what you learn here to make your marriage a safe place where you do your best to meet the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3300_needs.html" TARGET=_blank>Emotional Needs</A> of your spouse,and avoid <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Busters</A> whenever possible. . When a decision must be made, use the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3500_policy.html" TARGET=_blank>POJA</A> to determine the final outcome that you can both agree upon.<P>Many couples find that counseling is VERY helpful, and the counseling provided here is excellent for several reasons; but the most important is that it goes along with the concepts here. Check it out here –> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7000_counsel.html" TARGET=_blank>Counsel Link</A><P>Again, welcome to our community, and feel free to write often and ask lots of questions!<BR>