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Have someone the idea of the way how to plan A AFTER divorce???<BR>ExH and me live 10 miles apart, OD is with him and OW, YD is with me.<BR>Are there any opportunities to plan A after official divorce?<BR>How to make him want be with me again?<BR>How to make him miss me? <BR>(he lives with OW in our house for almost a year-no problems in the relationship, no missing YD, no missing me, no regrets, only hapiness and love)<BR>Any idea is welcome. Thanks
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Because of your abbreviations I am not sure how to answer your letter execpt that you cannot force him to love and want you<P>It greatly depends on how you conducted the marriage and the things you said to each other and did to each other that can fix or amend the relationship<P>Write to me direct at kidnpuppetshow@yahoo.com so that I can help you<P>Also log in to <A HREF="http://www.allexperts.com" TARGET=_blank>www.allexperts.com</A> to ask quick questions<P>Look under the marraige coloumn and find a Dr Duff<P>She is a psych<P>Write to me soon<P>Carol<BR>
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You must also both get divorce couselling before even thinking of a new relationship<P>Someone in your area like a social worker<BR>or minister who is qualified to handle<BR>your problems and direct you both and be<BR>a third party to help<P>Carol<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com</A> must be carefully<BR>studied to fix your relationship<BR>
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Darinka,<BR> You can Plan A after divorce, but Plan B works much better, especially in your case. I think it would feed XH's pride too much to Plan A...he knows that you still love him, no need to go overboard with that, it won't help, only push him into S's arms further. He doesn't need the ego boost. He needs to know what life is like with you out of the picture.<BR> BTW, I am e-mailing you right after this, but I do not accept that you are 'too old and unattractive'. You are unattractive when you are too weak, not by default...understand?
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