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I've been in Plan A for 2 months, 6 weeks from D-day and A is over, maybe. Got served today now what?<P>Plan A or Plan B?? or forget and move on?<P>Session w/ Steve H for Tuesday.<P><BR>JK
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Good! Steve is a great person to help you along. From my experience tho, never believe it's over when it seems to be or it is claimed to be. The next "game" they play is to make it seem the affair has nothing to do with the divorce. They do this with the hope of inserting this person later into the lives of their family and friends and have the OP accepted. It never works, but they ALL try it.<P>I don't have any words of wisdom other than you've made a good move with making an appointment with Steve. Take care.<P><P>------------------<BR>Kathy
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JK,<P>I probably asked you this before, but how sure are you that the A is over? I ask because this is so often the illusion given to us. Mine has continuously attempted to tell me that OM wants nothing to do with her....she has kids. It continues.<P>As I mentioned in GQII, this shouldn't change anything. It is merely part of her fog.
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Rick37,<P>THE A is not over, he stayed over on Wed, Night, on the couch, withthe kids there!. THis I heard from my daughter.<P>W says it just plutonic now, yea right. I just fell off a turnup truck.<P><BR>How think can the fog get?<BR>JK
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