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I haven't been posting d/t interent connection problelms. Well I am with the kids at a vacation spot my family haas been going to for almost 50 years. Last year, H brought OW #1 here, along with me and all the kids, This is when he was still saying "were just friends" <P>One hour before I make the drive , STBX; calls and tells me OW #1 is up there. I said thanks and of course he told me he had nothing to do with it.<P>Anyway, there she was, hanging out on the beach, with her kid and of course mine saw her and love her and her D, so it all sucked. I didn't say anything to her but I was thinking "What the hell are you doing here?" I thought I was rid of her but NO my life continues to be haunted by my; H bimbos. <P>Court date July 19 to get temporary support orders. It has only taken 6 weeks!!!!<P><BR>But, I am okay.<P>hopelessmom<BR>
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How did STBX know she was going to be up there?<P>Oh, that would just <B>finish</B> me off... <P><P>------------------<BR><I>As iron sharpens iron, so does one wo/man sharpen another...</I> Prov 27:17
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his mother called him to tell him that she was here.<P>H's parents also vacation here!!!<P><BR>
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{{{{{HoplessMom}}}}}<P>I can tell that you feel like that spot is yours...a sanctuary, but that isn't true anymore. I have a similar situation. What do you want? You know that that spot is 'tainted' now, and I am not surprised that you felt that way. 50 years, or 500 years...it doesn't matter.<P>Yes, you have more 'taken away' than you realize. I am so sorry for that. Find a new spot, okay? It would be best for YOU, and that's okay, because the better YOU are, the less Hopeless things become.<P>Make a new life...outside the old one. It will help.<P>Take care. -Mike
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