If you're not going to get out of the house, at least make some use of the time that you're in the house. I highly recommend udate.com, which runs about $15 a month. After hooking up with a <I>nightmare</I> on AOL's personals, I found udate.com. There are other services, but they're either a lot more expensive, or their message board and chat features drag, or they just don't do a good job of matching ... a lot of them also have <I>dangles</I> that are just shilling for internet porn services ... answer one of their ads and get stuck on a list. <P>If I had it to do over again, I would have a picture professionally taken (wait for baby day at Kmart if you're that cheap), then scan the biggest one at Kinko's, so that you can have a .jpg you can use a freely available shareware.com program called <I>Lview Pro</I> to re-size at will. Then I would get on udate.com, submit the picture and be completely honest answering its detailed pages about myself and what I wanted in another person. <P>Then I would do a lot of bantering with women who showed up high on my list. I'd do it for a while (say a month) before I even asked anybody to go out. Mind you, you will not be giving out your e-mail address. The system has its own internal mail, and a chat feature. If at some point you want to give out an e-mail address, get a special one on one of the free services like Hotmail or Yahoo! so that your "real" e-mail address isn't subjected to spam or "weird" people. <P>It helps to know that there are women out there who want to communicate with you, and that you can even find people who are the kind of people you want to be with (there are a number of different ways to look at the system's look of nearby women ... you can see ones that match what you want, ones where you match what they want, and ones where your wants and their wants come closest to matching, as well as newer ones, etc.).<P>I'm not shilling for this bunch, I don't have any financial connnection to them and haven't even used them in months. For all I know there is something better out there now. But I kind of doubt it. <P>BTW, I've been with the woman I found on udate since September of last year. Things are going great.