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I met my ex-H when I was 15, we married when I was 19. During 11 years of marriage he was involved with four different women. I finally had enough and divorced him. After more than a year of dating other men and watching him jump through hoops and walk through fire to get me back, we have agreed to remarry. We have begun counseling also. We were not Christians when we married, but are now. Am I crazy to take him back?
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You are not crazy. Sometimes it takes the big D to make people realize they have made a grave mistake. Sounds like you two are on track to recovery. I think you two will still have to work very hard not to relive the past, but it definately can work, if you both want it to.<P>My thoughts and prayers are with you and your XstbH.
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If you remarry, can you give him a clean slate, a pardon, expunging and sealing all the pertinent records from the past? If he's proven enough to remarry, he's deserving of a marriage that will be as hopeful and trusting as day 1. If not, stay outta that aisle!
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NOT AT ALL...I'd say that maybe you were lost, but now you are found. God is working through you...its okay to think you are crazy...you finally let him be the Lord of your life, and quit standing in his way...I salute you!<BR><A HREF="http://www.restorem.org" TARGET=_blank>Try this site</A><BR>God bless you! -Mike
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