I have already posted this message under "Another lead balloon", but I thought this header might catch me some more information about what to expect. Please help!!!<P>After a bad start to my day, my H sent me an email in reply to the one I sent him a week ago saying I was letting go. First he thanked me for the email, then says he has "some severe regrets about ending the marriage" and then asked that we talk to work out the future for the kids. Not for our marriage, without saying it, he did strongly imply. I don't KNOW what to do in the future and I don't want him to dictate it for me. And I am also not ready to talk about divorce. I am still too raw. <P>What do people discuss in such a situation...I have a vague idea money and financial things will come up, but I don't know what he should be doing for us. I don't know if I can keep my LB's under control and I just don't want to divorce him or him me. I am really, really needing help today!<P>