I have read about forgiveness.etc. but it is still to early and gee 9-10 woem in the lasst 11 years is hard to take! That was the last estimate...it gets worse with every therapy session...he is learning to tell the truth..I just really can't see how I can trust him again! Forgiveness must have trust with it no? I have never heard so many lies in the last week ever!<P>Sorry I think I am one of those that forgiveness is not pertainable...this is his coping mechanism...I can't live like this. We are just trying to co-parent until we see the therapists enough and he gets tested fro pathology....this is not easy!