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#697823 07/29/01 11:43 AM
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Used up the rest of my savings. I am moving back to my parents house today until I can find a roommate and a cheaper place to live. Received an email from wife today that talked about how much fun she had at her friends baccelorette party this weekend and how she is looking forward to her friends wedding next Saturday. <P>Why is it that she and the other WS are having so much fun while the BS seem to left holding the bag of despair? The week before last she asked if she could have the extra VCR that we had. She is making nearly nearly twice as much as I am in my new job and she is asking for an old VCR. She is living in the house and I am having to go back to my parents house to try and save money for a place to live. She got the new car which we purchased with some inheritance money I received and she still wants more. I think that I have reached the end of my rope here. <P>I am sorry that I am venting here but what else does she want from me. I am paying half of the bills as I said that I would. I don't know what else to do. I guess she won't be happy until she gets the money from the life insurance policy that I have on myself.

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Hi,<P>Have you seen a lawyer, and is divorce filed? Do you have any kids? Are you trying to Plan A and go for reconciliation, or just thru? It's hard to know what's going on from what you've said. It really sounds unfair and you DON'T have to give in on all these things. In fact, you don't even have to move out of your own house if you don't want to. I'm sorry for you, because I know lawyers cost and divorce really devastates people in every way especially financially. I don't have any advice and wish I knew what to say to help. I only know how you feel. It's hard to believe that any human being can treat another like this, let alone someone you were in love with. I'm really sorry.<P>------------------<BR>Kathy


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