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#698503 08/03/01 08:07 AM
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What does my wife of 18 years refuse to try to restore<BR>the love we once had. All I get is that she loves me<BR>but is not in love with me, and we have grown apart, and<BR>she wants to be on her own, I am not on the 'edge', and<BR>I am not what she is looking for. I don't think she knows<BR>what she is looking for.<P>I was in the Navy for 23 years, and the last 8 years, my<BR>wife has said that she has been unhappy, feels trapped,<BR>is not in love with me, we have grown apart. I have heard<BR>them all. Now we had something before, why would she believe<BR>that could not return. That is what is so frustrating. She<BR>had several affairs over this time period. <P>I have started the plan A and B thing. I have sent her my<BR>Dobson letter, but I am not sure she read it yet. It is<BR>difficult to let go, but I know I have to.

#698504 08/03/01 08:08 AM
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Oh, we are now separated, and the laws in VA say you<BR>have to be separated for one year. That takes this out<BR>to March 2002.


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