Hello all,<P>I signed the divorce papers yesterday. I have to say that I am finally relieved that this is finally at an ending. I just need to wait for the judge to put his John Hancock on it and it will be over. I am glad that this whole ordeal is over. My D papers were very specific on what I can and can't do as far as contact with my Ex (its nice to be able to say that ). Basically we will only talk to each other for the kids' sake. This is absolutely fine by me. The less I have to do with her the better off my life will be. Yes there is a little bit of venom in my attitude. 7 months, and thousands of dollars later, and the final document is pretty much the same as what we had agreed on in the very beginning. What a waste of time and money.<P>Anyway, just thought I would let everyone know what was going on. You all have been absolutely wonderful!<P>Griz<P>------------------<BR>Sometimes the hardest journeys in life are not the ones you embark on alone, but those that you choose to travel together.

{{{{{{{{{{Griz}}}}}}}}}}<P>I know in some ways it is a relief to finally know one way or another which way your life is heading, and a little bit, it is a relief that it is over with, but I'm sorry. <P>I'm sorry that you had to go through this whole, painful mess, and I hope you'll still linger around for the "newbies" once your venomous attitude has died down a bit. I know...it hurts. Hopefully, you'll feel a little better in a couple days or next week. <P>Meanwhile we're here for ya. Would you like a party/celebration or do you feel like mourning a little?<P>CJ<P>------------------<BR>Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

Griz - Congragulations on making it to this point and managing to improve your life. That's a tall order. I hope you get what you're looking for. <BR> Your observations have been valuable; I hope you will continue to post. <BR> Prayers for you.<P> Dan