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Very Lonely Today
#699691 08/12/01 05:09 PM
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I originally posted this on EN, but maybe it is more appropriate here...<P>"For some reason I am very lonely today. i guess because it is raining and my W and I are both stuck in the house.<BR>All I can think about is when my W and I were best friends and we made our own fun together (not just sex either).<P>I am feeling so rejected today, because she is divorcing me and doesn't seem to be phased at all that our whole marital relationship is ending. <P>Memories of better times are coming back to me. It hurts and I just wanted to say that. <P>Is anyone out there today?"
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#699692 08/12/01 05:20 PM
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Hi vb-guy,<P>You are not alone here! I am separated from my h, (only 5 weks) but there's plenty of other who are living with their h's or w's who will help you.<P>I can feel your loneliness. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Have you read everything you can on this site, especially Plan A and Love Busters stuff? You are lucky in a sense, because you are still in the house together, and so you have plenty of opportunity to put plans into action.<P>Read, read, read here. It will really help.<P>Nina
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I do read and am learning quite a lot about what keeps a marriage alive and what destroys it. <P>I just wish that she was not so intent on divorcing me as soon as possible.<P>Thank you very much for your reply.
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If she is still there you have oppurtunities keep working plan A. She hasn't left or divorced you yet, I see alot of hope for you, give her time and space.<P>

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