Spoke to WS on sunday morning just to say hi. This is the WS that is seeing a therapist today to determine whether or not she should try and work it out with me. Without my asking, she said she is leaning way over to the 'D' side. I will be flying back to her location to separate our things this weekend. She said she would tell me then. I already know the answer, and so I have no hopes anymore and have accepted it is over. What is really weird is that she is doing her best to try and make me jealous and hurt me, even though she knows I've been going to therapy and reading Dr. Harleys's books. She has two sets of friends, the bad ones that hang out at nightclubs(she rarely sees them) and the ones that are married with similar interests as us. I know she has been hanging out with the bad group since our separation, and it has made her mean and cruel. I'm sure they are trying to make her think she should do her best to hurt me now that she has made her decision, and although it doesn't bother me now because I've accepted that it's over, I don't understand how her parents can allow her to act this way. I really hope her therapist can identify how she is hurting herself before she does something to really hurt herself or someone else. I suspect she may be using drugs. Everyone who reads this, please pray for her.

I don't think my ex is using drugs, but I can say she seemed to do everything possible to hurt me, she seemed to go out of her way tho hurt me, after awhile, I realized that most of all she was hurting herself more than anyone, it almost seemed that her behavoir was self destructive, she never went for counseling or sought help since she didn;t feel she needed it. I decided to move on and not participate in her hurt and pain anymore. I think that it was all part of her justification for what she was doing to me, but it turned out only to hurt her more.<P>