I know the purpose of this forum is to keep relationships together but I really need in saying goodbye. My Husband has been having a longterm relationship with another woman. It starts and stops all the time. We've worked at trying to make things better between the two of us for two years. However, the working really has been one sided. Things were going well for us for a while and then he started with his I need space and things are making me emotionally weary. Basically it's a cop out and it's his way of releasing himself so he can be with the other woman. It's a pattern. I'm really tired of living my life this way. I want to tell him goodbye but don't know what words to use. Also the aftermath of such a thing is very stressful for me. I need some advice on how to deal with that as well. I'm headed out of the country this weekend. He's off with the OW this weekend. Great way to spend a holiday, huh? Don't get upset with me...I made my plans after he announced his. When I return I really want to start my new life.<P>Thanks,<BR>Judi

\<BR><p>[This message has been edited by HollyAnn (edited July 07, 1999).]